In raising a child, the father plays the same role as the mother. The child should develop in complete harmony, and only then he can, be full and independent. All the most beautiful, in raising a child, must give him father and mother. From the mother, the child will first receive: – affection, protection, softness and tenderness. Father, in raising a child is able to make him strong, bold and of course courageous.
But unfortunately, the upbringing of many children looks trivial: – Parents, return in the evening after work, mother to prepare dinner in a hurry, father spends her time at the TV, and only a small amount of his time, they are able to devote to their child. What kind of education a child will receive when everything is so commonplace and boring in the family. If the child grows in such a family, then it is possible that for his poor grades, he receives a slap. In such families, it is quite common.
But there is another category of fathers who are immersed in the development of their child, they force their child to study day and night, each step of the child can be traced, and if he does something, then he will wake up even on vacation to engage in one study. Many fathers bring up their sons in severity, they want to see a champion in their child, in a certain form of sports. And the child is forced to spend all his free time in training. Of course, the children’s organism is largely different from the adult, from constant training, the child can quickly get tired, and such sports do not bring him any joy. This category of fathers is trying to educate their children almost from the very diapers, such an attitude towards a child can greatly damage his psyche.
If the child is afraid of his father, then he will wake up fear at the sight of him, and he will also begin to be afraid of adult boys and men. All this, of course, will affect its development. Such a child wakes up to grow in constant fear, it is difficult to stand on his feet, this applies to his adulthood. A child with such education of a father can grow up modest and shy. If the girl receives such education from her father, then after she always wakes up to be afraid of men, this will lead her to loneliness. The girl is wakes up to attend the fuck in front of all men, this will damage her psyche.
About positive education
Not worth it, says only about the negative education of the child, there are also many positive aspects. The positive aspects of the father in raising a child. Almost every boy, until he has grown, seeks to resemble his father. This is noticeable in his manners to speak, about his preferences and even gait, the boy can resemble his father. It follows that the child needs to be brought up correctly, he is like a “sponge” that can absorb everything and after repeating. If the husband, quite often allows himself to be healing for women, then even this can manifest itself in a child, in kindergarten or at school. The child uses the same manner of behavior as his parents. Girls try to be like their mothers.
For every girl, of course, the best man wakes up – dad. In most cases when a girl chooses her husband, she chooses just such a husband who reminds her of her father. If the girl’s father, well provided their family, that is, he was a minister, then most likely a young girl wakes up to look for a wealthy man. There are also a completely different type of parent who possess the excellent qualities of kindness and care, and all the most beautiful, in such cases, the girl wakes up to try to choose a man who will also have to have the same qualities. All the ideals we can dream of, of course come to us from childhood. One very important truth should be remembered from this, how you will lead and educate your child, so he will grow.
